11 Dr. Ruth Quotes to Boost Your Sex Life, Confidence, and Bold Thinking

By Brooke Wanser

Updated on Feb. 09, 2017

America’s most beloved sex-pert—and Holocaust survivor, former Israeli sniper, author of dozens of books, and prolific Tweeter—Dr. Ruth Westheimer shares some bold life lessons along with classic sex advice.

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On Teaching

“A lesson taught with humor is a lesson retained.”

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On Enjoying Life

“One of my secrets to getting the most from life is that I naturally forget bad things that have happened to me.”

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On Spicing Things Up

“Boredom is the biggest problem. The same position. Same day of the week. It becomes boring when you don’t bring any added flowers home.”

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On Attraction

“When it comes to sex, the most important six inches are the ones between the ears.”

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On Perseverance

“Our way is not soft grass, it’s a mountain path with lots of rocks. But it goes upward, forward, toward the sun.”

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On Being a Good Lover

“Don’t criticize in the sack. Discuss constructively later.”

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On Being Sexy

“Eating an ice cream cone ‘provocatively’ in public can send out a message, if you dare.”

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On Body Confidence

“Curvy women need to visit a museum. Men have been attracted to those curves forever and still are. They can’t help it and that helps you.”

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On Sticking Up For Yourself

“Ladies you sold 200 boxes of Girl Scout cookies as a kid and now you can’t sell your man on wearing a condom. Come on.”

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On Finding a Partner

“Be involved! Go to concerts, performances, lectures– events of interest. Women have to take the risk of being the one to start a relationship, to say to a man ‘would you like to go for a coffee.’ If the answer is ‘no,’ go on to the next one.”

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On the Best Timing for Loving

“Engage in sex in the morning, when the testosterone level is highest and after a good night sleep for her. Have a little breakfast, hang the phone off the hook, go back into bed.”

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